Posts tagged Retrieve Lament 2013-14
Holy Week Lament: Tamara Hill Murphy (Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!)

A eulogy to an ex-friend:

I've given up hope for now, but let's put a pin in it

-- until the One holding that first breath of 

once-dead for all the coming-alive-again in His 

unbloodied mouth

breathes hot life on us in the new city,

the new garden where we get to try again.

Forever.

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Holy Week Lament: Sharon O'Connor (It Is Finished)

The doctor surely thought I was just an overwrought patient in denial. He checked his smartphone and looked back at me. I was not going along with a cut and dry visit schedule. I was being a little too blunt about my lack of appreciation for the options. I blubbered on.

“It is the suffering, because of ‘treatment’, that I dread. Not death. By the way – again, no disrespect intended – you doctors don’t go through your own treatment.”

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Holy Week Lament: Nancy Gilmore Hill (I am thirsty)

With my leg stretched out in front of me, I watched the stain of red seeping through the fat wad of gauze around my toe. The aching pain moved up my leg, and I sobbed. I had no mother; I had no father. I felt so very alone, in a house on the edge of town, with no pictures on the walls and no curtains at the window.

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Holy Week Lament: Brian Murphy (My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?)

Actually, I was furious with God. I would have told Him, but I was too afraid to say how I felt out loud. Why would a God who called Himself good leave a little boy all by himself?  When a friend finally gave me permission to say it out loud,  I fell to the ground under the weight of my sadness. Through tears and clenched teeth, I yelled, “Why God, why did you leave me? Where were you?”

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Holy Week Lament: Haley Ballast (Woman, behold, your son!)

What happens when you find yourself squaring off with an angry toddler trying to cash a massive emotional check from an account with far too few deposits in its balance history? These moments have been peppered throughout Zeke's time in our family, and they have been moments of deep grief for me as a parent. Grief for all that my son lost before he came to us. Grief that my gut reactions to his angry behavior are often selfish and lacking compassion. Grief, and even shame, that I should have to work so hard on something that I feel should come naturally (namely, motherly love and affection). And grief that even after two years in our family, my son is still waiting for the other shoe to drop, still keeping a lookout for the next upheaval, still guarding his heart.

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Holy Week Lament: Tamara Hill Murphy (Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!)

Since it's only Saturday, and we haven't yet 

really seen the Sunday (haven't beheld him in the clouds),

all we can do now

is hope you'll open your hands

and catch us from the

ground.

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Holy Week Lament: Sharon O'Connor (It Is Finished)

The doctor patiently went on to explain what he thought best for treatment. The course he was charting included radiation and chemo for the second time in two years. There were no words for our grief.

Three months have since passed. Radiation and chemo are, again, complete. More tests lay ahead, but the view from our battered vessel shows a sliver of sunlight breaking through the stormy horizon.

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Holy Week Lament: Nancy Gilmore Hill (I am thirsty)

I can still see her hands —dipping the cloth in the pan, wringing out the water, wiping my face, my damp forehead, my swollen eyes. Her hands—dipping the cloth in the water, wringing it out, wiping my face, my forehead, my eyes. Making soft, soothing sounds.

My sobs stopped, my body relaxed, and now it was just the murmuring of Flossie’s voice, the swishing of the water, the cool cloth on my face.

A gentle grace-filled quiet entered the room—and I slept.

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Holy Week Lament: Haley Ballast (Woman, behold, your son!)

I was not the first woman to mother my son. Not the first to kiss him goodnight, or comfort him when he cried, or carry him on a hip. I didn't see his first steps, hear his first word, or celebrate his first birthday. By the time I met Zeke, he could kick a soccer ball, drink from a cup, and throw a right wicked tantrum. I had missed a lot.

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